Conversation

Okay so for the last month, i've been going back and forth on if i am a phone person or not. The kind of person who enjoys talking for hours on the phone. I haven't reached a conclusion yet because it depends on who i am talking to. I won't list any names so i will use letters. There is one person, person A, who i can stay on the phone with for daysss because our conversations are soooooo stimulating. We can talk about every and anything from religion, politics, sex, sports, music and everything else and the conversation will have a specific flow. I have another person, person B, who i can be on the phone with for just a few minutes where the conversation consists of Hey, Hi, how are you and how was your day. I also have another person, Person C, with whom we don't have a lot of topics to discuss but i smile whenever their name appears on the caller ID. Then there are persons XYZ, which stand for all the other random people who call my phone. Most of the time, when i see these randoms, i either ignore or send them a text later. Sometimes i feel bad and pick up the phone, not because i want to, but because i feel guilty if i don't. I have very very little patience as it is so if i am going to spend time on the phone, i want it to be productive. In the sense that after that conversation, i can say the person at the end of the line taught me something or changed my course of thinking somehow. Person A is very very very smart and also very argumentative, which is why i feel like we can have these very diverse and intellectually stimulating conversations. With person A, we can talk about a piece of cheese...but that conversation will never be boring. Person B is more mellow in that they aren't argumentative at all...they are sweet and kind and the conversations with this persons consist of the hey and how was your day but these are usually followed by awkward moments of silence...which can get a little frustrating. I don't like to pick up the phone and run out of things to say. It takes two to have a conversation...if you don't feel like talking, then why call? That goes the same for me...I am a little of a reserved person so i don't really talk much. I only speak if i have something to say and i will have something to say when someone else says something i feel the need to comment on. Sometimes i find myself asking how i can get person B to talk with the same excitement i talk with but it's hard if there is little to no cooperation. Person C is cool but i don't like to be on the phone for long periods of time with this person. IDK why. They BORE me! And having little patience does not allow me to continue to entertain their convo attempts. I would find this rude if someone thought this of me but that is just how i am lol. I like to communicate and have intelligent conversations with people but i need to feed off of the other person's vibes and energy. It's even worse when you are sitting infront of someone and their body language doesn't indicate that they want to be in this particular convo....omg. so annoying! Why would u ask me to hang out if all u want to do is stare at me and give me one word replies??? get lost! ANywho, After re-reading this post, idk if i am a phone person. I like conversations but i don't want to be bored. So if you are going to call my phone, please have some sense to be interesting lol.


la paix et l'amour ;)